‘This is a month, the first part of which brings
Allah’s Mercy, the middle of which brings Allah’s forgiveness and the last part
of which brings emancipation from hellfire’. (Bukhari)
Jumping
straight into doing acts of worship can be difficult to keep up if we don’t
have a plan. Realising that Ramadan is a marathon rather than a sprint will
allow us to prepare accordingly and to effectively get the most out of this
blessed month. We’re all too
familiar with that struggle of throwing ourselves head first into the swing of Ramadan at the beginning, losing momentum during the
middle, and battling to keep up by the end. Here’s a quick guide to maintaining a
strong and steady pace to last us through
the whole month of Ramadan.
The
first ten days are the days of Mercy. Here are 10 easy steps in seeking Allah’s
mercy on these days.
1. Plenty
of dhikr (remembrance of Allah) and dua
Reciting Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi (Allah
is free from imperfection and His is the praise) one hundred times a day will
wipe away sins even if they are equal to the extent of the ocean. This can
easily be broken down to fit our busy Ramadan schedules by reciting it ten
times before and after our five daily prayers.
2.
Reciting the holy Qur’an
Completing the Qur’an might seem
overwhelming at the beginning, but breaking it down can really help. Try
reading 4.5 pages after every prayer. By the end of Ramadan, you will have
completed the whole Qur’an!
3.
Renew intentions
Fasting is a mercy in itself.
Constantly renewing your intentions will keep up morale and motivation. Don’t
forget to remind yourself that you are fasting for the sake of Allah and not
simply starving yourself. Insha’Allah this should keep you steadfast.
4.
Practice being merciful
Allah says that those who are merciful
will be shown mercy, so go that extra mile for your family, neighbours and
friends this month. Be extra patient with your siblings and carry out simple
acts of kindness such as offering your seat on the bus.
5.
Giving charity
A lot of people wait for the reward of
the last ten days, but it is better not to delay charity even if that means
giving less then you intended at the beginning so you can also catch the reward
of the last days. Allah loves those who help the ones in need and in giving
charity you help your brother and yourself. There is more reward in giving
charity secretly but there is still plenty of reward in giving it openly, ’If
you disclose your Sadaqah, it is well; but if you conceal them and give them to
the poor, that is better for you.” (Qur’an 2:271)
6.
Practicing the Sunnah
Preplan your sahur meal to encourage
yourself to wake up in the early hours of the morning, even if it is just to
have an odd number of dates and some milk. The Prophet (saw) said, ‘there are
blessings in this meal’. It is what distinguishes our fasts from those of the
People of the Book.
7.
Looking after your neighbours
The last ten days are mostly spent in
seclusion as people try to get closer to Allah during these days. Spending time
with your fellow brothers and sisters is more convenient during the beginning
of Ramadan, but don’t forget to be there for friends and loved ones.
Volunteering at your local mosque or something as simple as helping your mother
cook the iftar meal is a great way of showing kindness to others. Remember,
Sadaqah starts in the home and with family and friends.
8.
Seeking forgiveness
Ramadan is one of the biggest iman
boosters of the year. It’s the perfect time for seeking forgiveness from Allah
and also from our brothers and sisters who we may have wronged. This is the
ideal time for repairing and strengthening relationships. Allah loves those who
love each other for his sake.
9. Voluntary
prayers
Ramadan is an ideal time to start adding
the voluntary nafl prayers. It is also great practice for endurance when it
comes to the night (Tahajjud) and
Taraweeh prayers.
10.
Praying in congregation
’It was
narrated by Ibn Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, that the Prophet (saw)
said, “prayer in
congregation is superior to prayer alone by twenty-seven degrees”’ (Muslim). This
means men should endeavor to attend the masjid for the five obligatory prayer as well as Taraweeh. Insha’Allah if we remain consistent, praying in
congregation will become a habit even after Ramadan. As for women, it is fine to
pray in the home, but one can always form a congregation with family and
friends.
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